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Thank you so very much this has helped me understand more than I can say Much appreciation ❤

the really tragic ting about this, i that the neglected and traumatised child will be punished and rejected at school and in social situations, compounding their distress

Wow..thankyou dr Mate,your insights have turned my world around..so much so im not only entering a healing time but also the opertunty has come to shsre this experince with the world..thsnkyou ❤

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Wow. This video is so on point. Great advice too. Thank you.

we understood it the first time. No need to repeat it for every time Gabor says it.

I wish more caregivers/parents realized they are raising adults 🙏

When our e-motions move us, we can begin to create instead of "act out" unconscious knee-jerk reaction ✊

Emotions are great behavior thermometers

❤ Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤

"Trauma does not happen to you Trauma is what happens inside you." Thank you, Dr. Mate🙏 I have long believed The Creator Is Within ❤

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Stress kills! Laughter extends your life ! ❤🎉😂

Forever grateful for Dr.Gabors knowledgeable ❤heart ! His empathy outwardly shows what a fabulous Doctor he is! I have learned so much! His book is amazing ! My daughter suffers from fibromyalgia, dysautonimia, pancreatic cancer survivor, and so much more and she is brilliant! She is successful, educated, funny, and beautiful, and she is suffering! I feel helpless, though I too have a healthy background medically and we are never giving up! One thing I clearly acknowledged and still do, is her stress ! He is correct, in that our emotions show up on our physical being ! I am now working on physically getting closer to her so that we can emotionally be in a state of happiness. I will never give up! Dr.G! Ty for giving me hope and heart to help my baby girl! Are you ever in California speaking ? I just bought your book for my daughter! 🎉❤😊 much respect!

Dr. G. thank~you ! I got a lot of goodness & peacefulness from your work, listening to this a second time. It's true we all want to be loved & love, take good care.

These videos get on my Telemeres 😅Ok we got the picture. Trauma and stress messes up our bodies, and the tele-meres become like frayed shoe laces and we get sick with cancer etc. I would like a doctor to actually DO more and talk less. I would like dr. Mate and others to spend more time treating and heeling people. Or researching and experimenting with new treatments.. You’ve been saying that trauma makes people sick for ages… This message could be said in one breath so say it once and get to work please. Real work. We respect the doctors who do the hard work. Even when they fail us we respect them knowing that they put in the long hours and the sweat and did their best.

Dr. Gabor Mate is highly knowledgeable. Ive studied gentype science a bit and I love how he ties this emerging science in with other medical, psych disciplines and areas of thought.

Thank dr matte. , your info has saved my life ,,, We all love you!!

I wil come bck to this and post a comment during my journey and hering it this time around mind blowing lol always lerning something new

I've heard that shame is not an emotion, it's a belief--the belief that you are defective.

He needs to hold on to them bc he is using them!

Soo much better off sans children...more peace, less stress!!

Makes sense, but in practice it’s difficult to let go of returning negative thoughts , and to get clean, I’m glad my sister supports me and that I speak to my father. Sometimes I think ,know or feel like I am watched and played, it’s hard but ok good things happen too 🫶🏼🌹🙏🏽

There are real evil people in this world that do harm and evil in this world due to greed and envy. Kane and Able from the Bible. Some of your theories are correct but it’s partly true

God and the Bible is not a liar

I discovered it from my Trauma Therapist last year

I have Self Compassion

what kind of audio editting is this? horrible

There’s a guy called Fireside Reading( Gildart Jackson) who reads every night on Instagram. One of the books he’s read is Don Quixote. When he’s finished reading a book, he loads them on to UA-cam.

It's all person centerd theory. Iv just qualified as a PC therapist. Studying carl rogers theory from the 50s

I do think he should reference Carl Rogers and his person centerd theory. Empathy congruence unconditional positive regard to build the therapeutic relationship. Mirroring being one of the main techniques in his listening skills.

Wow this is such an INCREDIBLE interview. I love how authentic, honest, and transparent Oprah is. This was truly treat. Here are a few of my takeaways. Living a BRAVE Life 1." Vulnerability is being willing to express the truth" 2. "Clarity of intention helps to live a more fearless life" __________________________________________________ Shutdown Negative People _________________________________________________ Shame is: "Not Knowing" | "Never Good Enough" 1. "I want to be so full that I am overflowing" 2. " I am going to own the fullness without ego, without arrogance, and with an amazing sense of gratitude." _________________________________________________ Love is Secure ________________________________________________ Amazing Grace _______________________________________________ Power of Intention 1. " I really hope I have a home surrounded by beautiful things that reflect my beautiful spirit." ________________________________________________ Become a Student of Life ________________________________________________ Failure will lead us to the RIGHT direction.

At what age is it too late to fix the child's brain from lack of being emotionally available from the parent?

Yes Garbor a wonderful man and honest😊

Yes, l understand we always want to be cheerished and loved.

I had the worst experience of my life with EMDR I was retraumatised and have never been the same since. When this goes wrong, it can be devastating. They don't really know the effects of this treatment. I would not recommend this.

EMDR has had a profoundly positive effect on my life, far greater than any other thing I have tried for CPTSD and I’m extremely grateful for it

This is ridiculous. You can bond with your baby by bonding with your baby. Be attentive to needs and stay home if you can, but if you cant then do your best to be the best part of their day every day!. This is such utter shame put on mothers, only further confusing and suppressing your ability to mother well. Just do your best.

Thank you, Deepa Chopra❤

After thirty plus yrs, i disinherited both sons...should've done it sooner bc i was hoping against hope that we could reach some understanding between us before i leave this planet...but, NOPE, zero interest. One of them has five children who i never met, which is ok, but it seems to me they'd probably be curious about their grandmother, but are deprived of contacting me. Get the picture?

Even under normal conditions, holding on to your children is a bad idea. You're supposed to set them free. Besides once they turn 18, you're no longer obligated to look after them, so release them! I have known of families who impatiently anticipate a parents' passing, so that they can collect their inheritances. Its common. I'm glad i dont need to worry about that.

If you knew my history you'd understand why holding on to kids is the worst thing to do. I came from a family who destroyed their children. They pretty nearly destroyed me.

Dr. Mate is brilliant, and his message is life-saving, but if you look at the interaction around 55:18, you can see his visible disappointment when the woman doctor informs him that, in fact, they do talk about Trauma at her medical school nowadays. So it's one thing to believe wholeheartedly in your philosophy, but another to ignore positive information because it doesn't jive with your critical assessment of present society. We're all human beings, doing the best we can, and medical personnel are not evil simply because they haven't been introduced to some of these ideas. And no, I'm not a nurse or doctor.

Wow, thank you for this! I'm writing it on a note, card to refer to when I need .

My mother abandoned me, I was raised by different people. I had to grow up very fast, Unfortunately, I turned out to be stressed. God blesse me with a job. I am living for my child and guarding her with all my energy. I wish I was raised different.

Yes. The desire for freedom

It's a great ciencia and overall observation of medicine In the world hipertension and the future generations. Now how great the observation of the importance of one be oneself and talk instead of accept in silence.

It became harder and harder to watch this valuable interview because of those inserted video snippets that completely siphon your focus and weaken the flow of the conversation. And please correct those awful and incorrect AI subtitles.

I believe that stress is the root of all dis-ease and diseases.

❤Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤